I am trying to use SFDX in visual studio code to deploy only changes , and not the entire source
I have changed flexipages, custommetadata and Layout
<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<Package xmlns="http://soap.sforce.com/2006/04/metadata">
<types>
<members>ucinn_ascendv2__Related_List_Setting.RelatedList_ContactReportRelation_Outbou</members>
<members>ucinn_ascendv2__Related_List_Setting.ucinn_ascendv2__RelatedList_ContactReportRelation</members>
<name>CustomMetadata</name>
</types>
<types>
<members>Household_Profile_Picture_Collapsible_Sidebar1</members>
<members>ND_Constituent_Record_Page</members>
<members>ND_Prospect_Case_Record_Page</members>
<name>FlexiPage</name>
</types>
<types>
<members>Wealth_Asset__c-Wealth Asset Layout</members>
<name>Layout</name>
</types>
<version>58.0</version>
</Package>
when I execute the command "deploy source in manifest to org" all 6 items error in salesforce deployment status, each giving the following error:
An object 'whatever' of type CustomMetadata was named in package.xml, but was not found in zipped directory
Im at a loss as to why, if my package xml had all types, this wouldnt error, and if i individually deploy a single class, no error, but these items will not deploy